Family
			
			
			
			
			
			The Family Unit Based on God is the 
			most important aspect 
			
			In 
			the Creation of The  Communities of Light And the Kingdom 
			of God.
			
			            
			
			
			No matter 
			how powerful a society looks, how much they have, or how many 
			weapons they might pile up, they are going to be destroyed from 
			within if the focus is not on God, the family structure, and the 
			Communities of Light.  It has always happened in history.  
			Look at the Romans, the Persians, and the Greeks.  No one 
			destroyed them from without.  They were decayed from within.  
			In the beginning they said, “We trust in God,” and then later on 
			when they became rich and powerful, they said, “We trust in 
			ourselves.”  And then the fall started.
			
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			The house, 
			the family, the community that is based on the Spirit is strong.  
			It is a very strong unity.  If you have a nice strong house, it 
			does not matter how strong a storm is outside, you sit inside, warm 
			and comfortable.  Outside, yes, there is a storm.  You are 
			not afraid because your house is strong.  It is built on a good 
			foundation.  If someone comes and says, “Hey, let’s put this 
			door in this place,” and another says, “Let’s stretch that wall that 
			way,” after awhile your house does not look like a house any longer.  
			It is just going in all different directions with a weak foundation.  
			And because you have not planned it very well from the foundation, 
			it becomes a very weak, ugly house.  If there is a strong wind, 
			that is it.  It falls like a house of cards.  It falls all 
			the way to the ground.
			
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			Communities of Light are based on the families, the married 
			couples.  Every six couples gather together and create a unit 
			in the Communities of Light.  The six couples, six women 
			and six men, become one unit.  That is not a 
			Community of Light; they are a unit in a Community of 
			Light.
			
			            
			Twelve such units create the first level in a Community of Light.  
			And twelve of these twelve units create the second level.  A 
			Community of Light 
      		is around 2,000 people.  Of course, it can be bigger.  It 
			can be smaller.  It is not completely set how many, but twelve 
			people is the base.
			
			            
			For instance, there are six couples, then a new couple joins them.  
			They become seven couples.  Other couples join; they become 
			eight couples, nine couples, ten couples, eleven couples.   
			When they become twelve couples, they split into two units.  
			They become two six couple units and they can again accept other 
			couples in their house or their unit.  Eventually, when they 
			become twelve couples again, they split into two six couple units 
			again.  So that is how they spread out.
			
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			The best, 
			most beautiful parents are the parents who connect their children to 
			God, or at least provide them opportunities that they can be 
			connected to God (like finding a true spiritual teacher for them).  
			So if they do their Daharma, then they have done very beautiful 
			work; and they are the most respected, the most wonderful beings in 
			our lives.
			
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			There are 
			many, many significances of marrying legally and the marriage 
			ceremony.  God wants His people to be married, to be couples 
			and have children.  Also children have a better future in the 
			marriage.  They have a legal father and mother.
			
			            
			It is very important that both parents are present in the growth of 
			the child.  The mother is as important as the father in the 
			growth of the child.  The father is as important as the mother.  
			You cannot take the children and leave them with the father or 
			mother alone.
			
			            
			I know it is done in the West easily.  Divorce is easy.  
			Living together is easy.  Even a "one-night stand" is easy.  
			But that is not the way God created it to be.  That is why He 
			made men and women different.  They are equal, but equality 
			does not mean similarity.
			
			            
			Men and women are not similar.  If you say men and women are 
			similar then something is wrong.  They are not similar, but 
			they are equal.   In their physical, mental, and spiritual 
			progress, they have to be provided for equally.
			
			            
			If a woman has leadership ability, fine.  That person has to be 
			given the opportunity to manifest her abilities.  Equality, 
			however, does not mean similarity.
			
			            
			 And because there is not that similarity, they have to come 
			together and be present in the raising of the child.  They both 
			have to take this responsibility seriously based on God’s principles 
			(marriage based on God, forever).  So again there is a 
			significance for the children having legal parents, growing in a 
			loving environment, and becoming a productive member of the society.
			
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			In the 
			Communities of Light, children who grow in the community and 
			learn in the community are connected with different energies.  
			It is not like having an apartment with just Mommy, Daddy, and the 
			child, where everyone else is out.  In that kind of 
			environment, when the child grows up, he is so narrow.  His 
			experience is very narrow.  So, he is afraid of the world or 
			will be against it.
			
			            
			But the child who is raised in the community, when he grows up, he 
			is free, he is open, he is much more flowing.  That is one of 
			the things Communities of Light do for the children and their 
			future.
			
			            
			Actually the whole society is based on the family.  The 
			families are the blocks of the society.  If the family is weak, 
			that society is weak.  That would be the end of that society.
			
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			The second 
			chakra is related to the thirst, hunger, and procreation, and also 
			it is related to the liquid factor.  We see the liquid waste 
			comes from the second chakra, which is the sexual organ related to 
			procreation.
			
			            
			So, we see the second seal is related to the communities.  What 
			are the communities?  Communities are children, taking care of 
			your thirst, food, etc.  Again, we see the relationship of the 
			second chakra to the second seal.
			
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			The base of 
			the
      		Communities of Light is the couples.  The children of 
			these couples in the community will grow together, so they create 
			very strong bonds with one another.  Probably, after awhile, 
			many of them will marry at early ages because the communities 
			support them.
			
			            
			Marriage is going to happen early in life.  See, if a man and a 
			woman marry when they are sixteen or seventeen years old, when they 
			are together for thirty or so years, they almost know each other 
			inside-out.  They are completely one.  I have seen that 
			kind of marriage.  For example, a couple is married for thirty 
			years.  And the man does this [raising hand] and she knows what 
			it means.  She does like that [lowering head] and he knows what 
			happened.  They are one with each other.
			
			            
			Then put together these kinds of marriages based on God, based on 
			the Communities of Light, based on the 
			Eternal Divine Path, and you have a society that is very 
			strong.
			
			            
			So 
			Communities of Light will become a very powerful force on 
			earth.   Any nation that picks this idea up and implements 
			it, is a nation that is Blessed.  It is a nation built on rock, 
			not on sand.  That is why after awhile we will not have so many 
			lost bachelors or singles with no purpose in life.
			
			            
			There is a decision that the single people have to make.  Some 
			people have not been born to be married.  They were born to 
			dedicate all their lives to do God’s Will, to do His teaching, to 
			help other people, to spread the Message, to go wherever they have 
			to go because they do not have that connection to the family.  
			They can just live day-to-day, go where they are supposed to be, and 
			preach God’s Word.
			
			            
			Tomorrow someone is needed to go to India.  It is very easy to 
			send a person who is not married.  “Ok, we have this 
			opportunity, who wants to go to India?”
			
			            
			Those who are married say, “Oh, I have a child.  I have my 
			wife.  I have my husband.  I have this house.  I have 
			that payment.”  But the single person says, “Oh, I will go.  
			I have nothing to worry about.  I have no attachment.”  So 
			there is a place for the singles.
			
			            
			It is around the age of twenty-one, twenty-two, or twenty-three, if 
			you are not married, that you have to make a decision.  Do you 
			want to remain single for the rest of your life, or do you want to 
			become a married person?  With that decision you choose your 
			path, which way to go.  If you choose marriage, that is 
			beautiful.  That is a wonderful choice in God’s Plan.  If 
			you choose not to, and decide to dedicate your life to God’s Work 
			(become a renunciate), that is wonderful too.  Then you become 
			a teacher or a worker for God.
			
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			The life of 
			a renunciate means the person who renounces the world and dedicates 
			himself or herself to the work of God.  As in the Bible, 
			Esa (Jesus) said, There are three kinds of eunuchs.  There are 
			the ones who were born as eunuchs.  There are the ones who are 
			made to be eunuchs by men.  And there are the ones who decide 
			to become eunuchs because they want to dedicate their lives to the 
			work of Christ, the work of God.
			
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			The Greatest Sign has come to humanity to bring the focus 
			back to God, instead of to each other.  I am talking about 
			future families.  If we create more and more men and women who 
			are concentrating on God, they are going to create beautiful 
			families that are based on God.  The family is the base of 
			society.  The family is like a block of society.  You 
			cannot build a building without blocks, and that is what the 
			families are.  If the family structure is weak, that society is 
			weak.
			
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			You have to 
			believe the first step.  What we are saying is the wheat, not 
			the chaff.  We are trying to create families that are pure, 
			based on God’s Word, based on the purity of relationships, based on 
			the Communities of Light 
      		and the Eternal Divine Path.  Those things are the base 
			of the communities.  You are responsible.  You are 
			responsible for your life.  You are responsible for the 
			community, and you have to serve in that capacity with all your 
			heart, mind and spirit.